Mark Zuckerberg and Sheryl Sandberg want you to know they’re still friends and definitely not mad at each other

On Thursday, The New York Occasions revealed a lengthy story in regards to the rise in energy of Stephen Miller, a longtime loyalist of Donald Trump identified for his hardline views on immigration. Usually, a narrative like that wouldn’t get a lot consideration within the tech press. However the piece opened with an anecdote about Mark Zuckerberg that instantly raised eyebrows.

The story detailed a latest assembly Miller had with Zuckerberg when the Meta CEO traveled to Mar-a-Lago final yr. In keeping with The Occasions, Zuckerberg — who would quickly resign Meta’s prior fact checking efforts and ditch corporate diversity packages — “blamed his former chief working officer, Sheryl Sandberg, for an inclusivity initiative at Fb that inspired workers’ self-expression within the office.”

That line set off a contemporary spherical of hypothesis (and a few outrage) in tech circles. Sandberg, who left Meta in 2022 and rose to fame after authoring her girls within the office manifesto Lean In, was identified for her as soon as shut partnership with Zuckerberg on the prime of Fb. That Zuckerberg would blame his former prime lieutenant for fostering “inclusivity” at his firm, raised eyebrows even amongst longtime observers of the corporate.

“She at all times knew who Mark Zuckerberg and lined for him,” New York Occasions reporter Sheera Frankel, who co-wrote a guide about Fb’s dominance, noticed on Bluesky. “ The query is whether or not she is going to proceed to take action when he so blatantly throws her underneath the (Trump) bus.” Journalist and longtime tech pundit Kara Swisher likewise noted that “of us I talked to tonight from the Mark/Sheryl Fb period are shocked however not stunned by his blaming her.”

I additionally weighed in on my Threads account, sharing a hyperlink to a Enterprise Insider story from February that quoted an interview by which Zuckerberg stated that Sandberg had raised him “like a dad or mum.” I joked that the remark hadn’t aged nicely.

However on Friday, Zuckerberg determined to let me (and I assume everybody else) know that he and Sandberg are nonetheless cool, in any case. “Sheryl did wonderful work at Meta and can perpetually be a legend within the trade,” he wrote in a reply to my submit. “She constructed one of many biggest companies of all time and taught me a lot of what I do know.”

A couple of minutes later, Sandberg jumped in to helpfully let me know there aren’t any onerous emotions on her aspect, both. “Thanks, @zuck. I’ll at all times be thankful for the numerous years we spent constructing an awesome enterprise collectively – and in your friendship that acquired me via among the hardest instances of my life and continues to today.”

Zuckerberg responded with a single heart emoji.

I requested Zuckerberg if he felt Sandberg was too targeted on DEI initiatives at Meta, or whether or not she took away from the “masculine vitality” he lately told Joe Rogan companies ought to embody. Notably, he has not denied The Occasions’ reporting about his feedback relating to Sandberg, although he claimed they’re being misconstrued.

“I answered a query about the place the phrase ‘convey your complete self to work’ got here from, and now there’s an entire bogus narrative saying I blamed Sheryl for a bunch of stuff that I by no means did and by no means will,” he said. (Bringing your “complete self” to work is a slogan popularized by Sandberg in Lean In. Comparable language typically appeared on Meta’s careers site when the corporate highlighted range amongst its workers. “Being your genuine self is the inspiration of who we’re as an organization,” Meta wrote on a since-deleted web page of its company web site the place it shared its inner range studies.)

So, I assume that settles it. Nothing to see right here, of us. Mark and Sheryl are undoubtedly nonetheless buddies. They might not work on the similar firm anymore, however they’re nonetheless capable of come collectively to move off a possible PR crisis. What may very well be extra inspiring than that?

Replace, January 17, 2025, 4PM PT: This submit was up to date to mirror an extra remark from Zuckerberg.